People tend to have common ideas on who and what one should be like, which differs in society they're in.
Just a some thought towards the society I'm in.
- you need to devote yourself to a religion to be good
No, thank you, I rather be atheist.
I don't feel the need to worship anything nor feel that you need to be in any religion to be a ethical or non-ethical person. What you are is based on the environment you are brought up and the decisions you made yourself.
Regardless of society nor religious teaching, one does tend to make up their own value due to their experience.
I would say, anyone that is willing to take up a philosophic book and allow their own values for scrutiny are in self-improving progress. Of course, I can't guarantee that they are improving themselves to their society's standard.
owh yea, I dislike religious extremists and hypocrites. For extremists, they tend to take their religion seriously to a dangerous level, causing shallow religious discrimination and calling an issue religious when it's not. For hypocrites, you know the drill, they can say 'I'm ok with homosexuality' but when their religion recognize same sex marriage, they rage.
however, at least extremists show you that they are despicable while hypocrites show you their lovable side while continously back stab you.
- you should socialize
No, thank you, I rather be a solitude person.
I just don't feel the need to go out and mixes with people... whom I eventually would become background of. I don't really 'click' with them nor they would bother with a new person more compare to their other friends. My critical self would not allow me to agree with people all the time and it doesn't help that I tend to address the point to... well, the extremists.
plus, I don't like to argue as it is tiresome nor have people go "how can you say that!" before I can elaborate that I prefer to be quiet one in the group.
Then again, I do like a 'no' within an all 'yes' debate, given that the 'no' person give a civilized argument. I personally like that part of diversity and think it would make the whole debate more interesting. I prefer to read an article about critiques rather than an article praise, partly because I can reconcile with them, partly because it's just more interesting than just reading "omg it's awesome!"
The only reason I have FB is because I want to see 'soap doramas' and see those pesky FB link friends give that you need FB to open. Nothing more, nothing less.
- you should find a girl friend
No, thank you, again, I rather be a solitude person.
I don't get it.
Why everyone around expect teenagers to be the cliche love lusting people? Screw the guy next to me is the exact same age but married, single isn't all that bad.
I don't have to be bind down by a mate nor a family when traveling nor like to take care of someone all the time.
I would agree that some people prefer to be loved, then again, sorry that's them, not me.
- you should cut your hair
No, thank you, I love my long hair.
I look ridiculous in short hair and don't like the 'boring neat guy' or 'duh dummy' look.
yes, it's bothersome at times that I have to take care of them, but I prefer having long hair.
hot? I don't think so.
heavy? nope.
you just didn't like it because it doesn't suit your idealized 'men look'.
- you should be optimistic
No, thank you, I prefer to be realistic.
I don't like to be disappointed due to having high expectation and prefer to be prepared for things coming my way... that is if I know what's coming.
I'm not emo, period.
When I'm pessimistic, the thought tend to push me forward or make me have a brainstorm for solution instead of struck me in a depression. To me, my pessimistic natural is healthy.
- you should be nicer to people
No, thank you, also, please explain your definition of 'being nice'
If you meant being polite and kind, well, I am being very nice and kind... except to the people whom violate my principle. Consider me being nice to you if I stfu and let you gets away with it for a couple of time. Consider it a kindness if I don't pick up what I left off last time and want the relationship to be a new.
If you meant being a 'yes man', package myself to be nice despite I secretly hate you, sorry, it ain't my style to be a hypocrite. What you see is what you get, at least you don't need to worry about hidden dilemmas. Again, back stabbing isn't my style.
If you meant stop being a troll, well, I never intended to be one to begin with.
Yes, my words are sarcastic at times, it's the way I talk, sometimes I'm just making a bad joke instead of being serious.
Yes, I'm critical, but it was not meant to pick on you and make you feel bad, I really do hope you'll improve. You'll feel good about it, I'll have a better reading material from you.
Yes, I'm vulgar at times, because I show my emotion more directly, again, the bad jokes.
Yes, I talk back when others critique my works, because I feel the need to explain my work and would like a discussion to improve.
if people wanted to see what I said as trolling.
Fine! I'll be your 'troll'.
It's not like your mind would change no matter what I said, you just want to justify that I come here to gather hatred for attention. So be it.
If you meant be nice as in be more socialize, look above to "you should socialize". If my feelings towards a personal is neutral and lower, I tend to be the quiet and cold person. No hard feelings, I don't specific-ly feel like being excited with people I don't know or hate.
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thanks and sorry for taking your time to read my rants.